Rss Feed
Tweeter button
Facebook button
Myspace button

The Perfect Youth Ministry Leader

How do you know where YOU stand in the world of youth ministry?  Are you an “Intern” or an “Epic Legend?”  Find out by taking this quiz!*
 
Side Hug

The Infamous Side-Hug

1. You have the “side hug” down to a science. [+1 point]
2. You can 1 thumb txt faster than type on a real keyboard [+1]
3. You own a Jesus is my homeboy t-shirt. [+3]
4. You know what purpling is and how best to avoid it. [+1]
5. You use words like “dope”, “fly” and “da bomb”. [-2]
6. You know exactly what to do with 16 plungers, a rubber chicken and a large bouncy ball. [+1]
7. When you put your iPod on shuffle, people often hear Lady Gaga followed by Chris Tomlin. [+1] 

8. What’s a Lady Gaga? [-4] 

9. You have a fridge full of leftovers from youth group events. [+2]
10. You have a fridge full of moldy leftovers because you never eat at home. [+1]
11. You know all the names of Target and Sam’s knock off sodas. [+1]
12. You have ever purchased “sandwich crèmes” instead of Oreos. [+1]
13. You still have an open pack of “sandwich crèmes” in a closet from a month ago because no one ate them all. [+5]
14. You have a verse tattooed somewhere on your body. [+1] [+2 points for Hebrew words]
15. Said verse tattoo contains spelling errors. [-2]
16. You know more icebreaker games than anyone really cares to play. [+1]
17. Your idea of “on time” is any time before the people ask where you are. [+1]
18. Sarcasm is your native language. [+3]
19. If you divided your salary by the hours you work you might laugh or weep uncontrollably. [+4]
20. You know how to fix the church van when it breaks down for the 8th time. [+4 for each time]
21. You have been known to wear fanny packs on mission trips. [-6]
22. You have more toys in your office than Michael Scott of The Office. [+1]
23. 80% of your wardrobe consists of free t-shirts from camps and conferences. [+2 for each shirt]
24. You have been known to use toilet paper for many other uses. [+2] 

…salary isn’t why you got into youth ministry to begin with, but it would still be nice…  

25. You love it when a kid’s face lights up in Bible study and you can tell they just “got it,” which reminds you that a great salary isn’t why you got into youth ministry to begin with, but it would still be nice… [+6]
26. You can do more things with duct tape than McGuyver [+3] 

Now Add Your Points!!

TP'd House
We Love You Pastor!!!

0-10 Points: Youth Intern; you’re not a youth minister yet, but you’re on your way. Keep at it! 

11-25 Points: Amateur Hour; you must have just started on your youth ministry journey, you need some more practice on the correct way to lob a roll of toilet paper in a perfect tree covering arc so it will nestle in the branches and not fall through. 

26-39 Points: Minor Leagues: Now we’re talking. You’ve been to a Skillet concert or two. This isn’t your first goatee (unless you’re a lady.) You know the joys of discount pizza and off brand sodas. 

 
40+ Points: Epic Legend: Your work on the Jone’s house in 2008 is still discussed at the Charmin factory headquarters. You will go down in the Youth Ministry Hall of Fame. Congrats! You are an Epic Legend! 

 

*adapted from the youth department at Wildwood UMC, Magnolia, TX

Testimony of Teen Called To Ministry

Here is a great video testimony I found on YouTube from a teenager who feels called to ministry.

What do you think? How does God call people into ministry? This is just one example of how God works in the lives of people today, showing them what their true calling in life is.

Q’s to Ask Before Taking a Ministry Job

Ok, so you’re in the first or second interview for your dream ministry position.   They grill you pretty good for about an hour and then say something like, “Do you have any questions for us?” to which you reply… 

search committee

In The Interview

We have all heard things like “don’t go into an interview unprepared.” However, many people interviewing for ministry positions do just that.  It is important to remember that you are interviewing the church as much as they are interviewing you.  In his bestselling  book What Color Is Your Parachute 2009-A Practical Manual For Job Hunters and Career-Changers, Richard Nelson Bolles states that “An interview resembles dating, more than it does buying a used car (you).  An interview is two people trying to decide if they want to ‘go steady.’”  Truer words have never been spoken of a potential ministry candidate and a search committee in a local church.  The conversation should never be one-sided.  We have all heard statistics on the burnout rate of ministers.  Everyone knows that average youth and worship leaders only stick with a church for 18 months.  Other than sheer burnout and skimpy salary packages, what could be the cause of such a statistic that holds true year after year?  I propose that many people burnout, get fed up, find that they are not a good fit for a particular church, and ultimately resign because the right questions were not asked in the interview process.   How can you really tell if you are a great fit for a congregation if the questions only go one way? 

How can you really tell if you are a great fit for a congregation if the questions only go one way? 

Over the years, Audrey and I have come up with a list of questions that we try and ask during interviews.  Sometimes the questions are answered before we ask them, sometimes not.  I have actually gone to an interview with a printed list of these questions, complete with room for me to write answers.  Here are the top 15 on my list: 

  1. What is your church’s vision for ministry and for this position?
  2. Is the church run more by the pastor, congregation, deacons/elders?
  3. What things were done well by the previous person in this position and what would you like to see continued?
  4. What was not done well by the previous person in this position and what should be avoided?
  5. Can I have a copy of the church’s budget and the budget for my ministry area complete with line items?  No church should have a problem letting you see this.  You should have a right to know where their money goes if you are thinking about joining the ministry team.  Did they meet budget last year or are they in the red?  Are staff members paid in an equitable manner?  Many churches will pay a senior pastor close to six figures but offer the youth and childrens ministers less than $40,000 for a total compensation package.  It is not all about money, but there is a practical side to things.  It’s not a sin to pay the bills or be debt free.   
  6. What are your expectations regarding the job descripton, my direct supervisor, time at the office, etc.?
  7. Is your church incorporated? (This question helps you know how the church stands legally, which could have huge ramifications on you in the event of a lawsuit.  If a non-incorporated church gets sued, every staff member and officer of the church can legally EACH be held accountable for the full amount of a judgement/settlment.  In 2010, it just makes sense for a church to incorporate as a 501C3 non-profit organization.) 

    question

    What do I ask them?

  8. How does my direct supervisor manage people?  One time, we forgot to ask this question in a straight-forward manner and it came back to haunt us.  It is ALWAYS good to get a feel for how a supervisor may treat you.  Listen to your gut on this one as well.
  9. What are the demographics of your congregation?
  10. Where does the church send its mission dollars?  This question can clue you in on whether the church values social justice or evangelism more.  You can learn a lot about a church by knowing where their money goes.
  11. What does the church think about women in ministry?  Since I’m married to a woman who feels called to vocational ministry, it’s important for me to know that any church I work at affirms the call God has placed on Audrey’s life. 
  12. What are your expectations of my spouse if I work here?  This may seem like a stupid question.  They are interviewing you and not your husband or wife…right?  WRONG, in many cases.  Some churches are looking for a “two for one” deal where the spouse will do just as much as the person on staff.  This expectation is unfair and unreasonable.   I literally had a church ask me one time “If we hire you, what will Audrey do for our ministry?”  The problem- at the time Audrey and I weren’t even engaged to be married.  I told the church that they would have to ask Audrey about that and gently reminded them that they were interveiwing me, not me and my girlfriend.
  13. How many professions of faith were made last year?  Some churches claim to be about reaching the lost, but have not led anyone to Christ.  Let’s face it, numbers here should speak volumes. 
  14. What are the biggest challenges in the life of the congregation right now?
  15. How does the staff function as a team?

These questions of course are just suggestions from my own personal experience.  I do know that I am glad I have asked them and that they have kept me from taking a position or two.  Believe me, it is ALWAYS better to ask the tough questions up front, and not learn six months into a ministry job that you’re working at the church from…well you get it.  I want to hear the questions you would add to this list!  In your experience what works and what doesn’t in interviews?  Let’s be a resource to each other!

6 Q’s All H.S. Seniors Need To Answer

Paul Turner over at Free Youth Ministry Ideas is doing some GREAT work!  The best part is- It’s FREE!  The world of ministry needs more colaboration.  The sharing of ideas is a powerful ministry tool.  We want YOU to join the conversation! 

Paul Turner of Free Youth Ministry Ideas blog and The Disciple Project

Paul Turner

Paul is also the creator of www.thediscipleproject.net, (another FREE youth ministry resource) and a contributer to Interlink’s YLO Resource Book. 

Paul recently asked me to contribute to his blog…

Paul recently asked me to contribute to his blog by posting my exit strategy for high-school seniors. My idea is to get them to answer six questions over the course of a couple of months, and compile the answers into a book. Want to read the questions?

Read the full article  at the Free Youth Ministry Ideas Website!

Four Clues-Hearing God’s Call In My Life

     I grew up in a home that was committed to church.   Iwas hearing hymns while I was still in my mother’s womb really.  My dad was a part-time music minister and my mom the ever faithful volunteer.  If church was open, it seemed like we were there.  I bet I knew all 75 verses to Just As I Am by the time I was six!  I could guess what the next felt board character would be in Sunday school because I knew the stories, and I kicked the other kids’ butts at Bible drills.  Church was in my DNA from day one.  Maybe that was my first clue. 

Church was in my DNA from day one.  Maybe that was my first clue. 

     During my highschool years I went to a church across the street from my highschool.  They had a great youth program that gave students the chance to lead in the youth ministry.  I served on the “youth council” for the youth group and attended extra Bible study classes just for the council members.  I also worked for a denominational group in Texas during the summers running boys camps around the state.  My junior and senior year of highschool I was gone ten weeks during the summer running these camps.  The teams I led would lead the recreation, skits, camp-craft lessons, and even worship at the camps we went to.  Picture of man with magnifying glassWhen I went to college I worked at a camp outstide of Austin called Highland Lakes Camp and Conference Center every summer.  I love that camp with all my heart.  Heck, I got married there!  I was addicted to camp ministry.  Maybe that was my second clue.

     I went to a private Christian school called Howard Payne University and loved avery minute of it.  I started off in the honors program with a full academic scholarship.  Sweet!  I pledged a fraternity my second semester and was regularly late to class my whole first year.  At the end of year one my GPA was 1.9.  Not sweet.  I decided that a political science major was not the degree for me.  I switched to communication studies and never looked back.  All of my communications classes were interesting, but the really interesting classes all seemed to revolve around ministry.  God was begining to affirm in me the calling that had been placed on my life.  It seems I was being given opportunity after opportunity to lead groups of students at churches in the area.  I started traveling on weekends with a student ministry group on campus called BSM.  We would go and lead small groups of students at weekend retreats around the state.  At churches called Coggin Ave. and Rocky Creek I was given opportunities to lead small groups of youth, teach a youth sunday school class, lead worship, and even preach.  I was getting exposed to all the joys ministry had to offer.  I was learning what my areas of giftedness were.  I was feeling affirmed.  Maybe that was the third clue.

     On September 16th of 2001 I started dating the love of my life, Audrey.  I was a sophomore and she was a fish.  You can ask any of our college friends, we were inseparable.  About half way into her first year, Audrey and I had a conversation that may have changed both of our lives forever.  She was taking all sorts of classes at school, but couldn’t figure out what to get a degree in.  Sound familiar college students?  She had started off as a physcology major, which would have helped her in our relationship, but she wasn’t feeling it.  We talked for a long time about all of her passions and I finally asked her, “out of all the classes you are taking, what class excites you the most?”  She looked at me for about two or three minutes just thinking…thinking…thinking…  Finally the words came, “ministry, I really enjoy my ministry classes more than anything else I’m taking.  In fact, I can really see me working at a church.”  That conversation was largely the beginning of a lifelong journey for both of us.  I had fallen in love with a girl who felt called to ministry.  Maybe that was the fourth clue. 

Finally the words came, “ministry, I really enjoy my ministry classes more than anything else I’m taking.  In fact, I can really see me working at a church.” 

     We all have different stories.  What you have just read is but a snap-shot of my story.  Over the course of many years, God was getting me ready to pursue a call to vocational ministry.  What is God calling you to do with your life?  What clues is God dropping in your lap about the divine plan for your life? 

Stop.  Think.  Feel.  Pray. 

What is God saying to you?  

Now, Go.  Do.

Be, what God is calling you to be.

 

A1 Web Links -

TobyMac’s “Rock The Camp” contest!!!

Rock-The-Camp Vote 4 Me!!!Great news everybody!  I have entered a national Christian singer/song-writer competition and need 4000 votes by next Sunday for a chance to open for TobyMac and record at Gotee Records! (in other words, this is a big stinkin’ deal!!!!)
You can vote for me by following these steps:
1. Go to rockthecamp.endavomedia.com/mediamanager/
2. Click on “Fan Registration”
3. You will be entered into a sweepstakes of sorts for an IPod, which means they will require contact info. Later in the process you can opt out of personal mailings and emails.
4. You will be sent an email with your password and a link for your initial log-in. Click on the link and log-in.
5. You will see a column of pictures beside song titles. Scroll down to the empty search box (look for magnifying glass) and type in “humility”. Jonathan’s will be near or at the top.
6. Click on the song title “Lord of This”, then click “Vote”
7. Forward this message on to every friend you have
8. Vote again tomorrow
9. Vote again the day after that
10. …well you get it.

As many of you know, I have been writing songs for and about the Lord since I was a child. I have a passion for sharing these songs with others in congregational, retreat, and camp settings. Whether or not this is some sort of “big break”, time will tell. Either way, I will continue to serve God wholeheartedly.
Thanks for your support!
Jonathan

Theological Education

Listen to Dr. Walter Brueggemann’s plea for the importance of theological education in today’s culture.  Karl Barth, Martin Luther, Paul, Charles Wesley, Dietrich Bonhoeffer, and even Billy Graham all saw value in getting an education to do ministry.  Theological education makes you better at what God is calling you to do!

Walter Brueggemann on FTE from FTE on Vimeo.

What do you think? How important is education in ministry?

Blog is up and running!

I’m excited to announce that I have joined the blogosphere!  My entries will be geared mostly toward equipping emerging leaders in the church to follow their call.  What is God calling you to do?  How do you hear from God?  I would love to talk with you about how God has called you to a ministry of some type.  Send me your story!  God has called countless men and women to ministry over the years, and one of my big passions is helping people discern that call.  My last youth group had only thirty kids or so, but about ten of them expressed a call to vocational ministry.  Because of this unusually high number of students feeling called to ministry, I began researching how to help them in their discernment process.  Simply put, there are not enough resources out there for people, especially youth, who feel called to ministry.  Teens can get info from their guidance counselor on a plethora of fields, but ministry is rarely mentioned in the schools as an option.  The sad part is that ministry is rarely mentioned in our churches as well.  I hope through this blog to provide a resource for students and student ministers concerning God’s call to vocational ministry.  A new generation of leaders will not be there unless we participate with God in raising them up!   If you know of someone who is considering a call to ministry or someone that works regularly with students professionally or as a volunteer, send them to this blog for resources and helps on pursuing the call of a lifetime!  I will be posting resources like Bible studies and links to pages about calling in the weeks and months to come, so check back often for the latest resources!  Hope to hear from you!

New site in the works!

As you can see changes are coming! By Feb 1st there will be a brand spanking new site featuring video and audio reels and new updates. Stay tuned.